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Hey there, I'm Tess!

Welcome to my blog; I make lots of different layouts, codes, tutorials, and other resources for Insanejournal and Dreamwidth RPers! There's a lot to choose from and brand new content goes up every week!

Take a look around, and don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it!

Can't get enough resources? Why not subscribe to my Patreon for exclusive monthly content, or support the creation of more content by leaving a tip on Ko-Fi! ♡

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General Update

Okay, so here's the deal! I've been out as nonbinary for a couple of years now, but I didn't feel like dealing with my pronouns (I'm supremely lazy) and I wasn't really bothered one way or the other. This is just a quick heads up that my feelings on that have changed, and while I'm not necessarily bothered by she/her pronouns, I no longer wish to use them as an option. I'd appreciate if you guys could use they/them for me going forward. Thanks in advance! 😎👉👉
Using on DW?

Comments

Mar. 14th, 2021 02:35 pm (UTC)
Thank you for clarifying! :D
Mar. 16th, 2021 06:02 pm (UTC)
😘
Mar. 14th, 2021 08:38 pm (UTC)
Will keep this in mind!
Mar. 16th, 2021 06:02 pm (UTC)
🥰 Ty!!
Mar. 15th, 2021 01:59 am (UTC)
<333
Mar. 16th, 2021 06:02 pm (UTC)
💖
Mar. 15th, 2021 02:53 am (UTC)
You got it! ♥
Mar. 16th, 2021 06:02 pm (UTC)
💖 Thank you!
Mar. 16th, 2021 03:43 pm (UTC)
<3 <3 I feel so dumb for not knowing! I adore you and of course, you got it!
Mar. 16th, 2021 06:02 pm (UTC)
No don't! I'm not sure I ever formally addressed it because for the last couple of years I wasn't bothering with changing my pronouns LOL. I talking about being nonbinary every so often in passing in my server when it comes up, but yk yk. 😂
Mar. 18th, 2021 12:17 am (UTC)
Hell yeah. You got it.
Mar. 23rd, 2021 10:05 pm (UTC)
😘✨
Mar. 21st, 2021 04:17 am (UTC)
You've got it!
Mar. 23rd, 2021 10:05 pm (UTC)
🥰💕
Mar. 26th, 2021 01:05 pm (UTC)
Pronouns have been a thing I have long struggled with too. After spending years going "I don't care what you call me", I've also found myself caring a lot more recently. So basically GOOD FUH YOU. And also ILU. And also I'll have very strong words for anyone who messes up in my presence.

Especially after having to deal with a transphobe in one of my games lololol don't ask
Mar. 26th, 2021 10:34 pm (UTC)
It's weird how fast it can change? I legitimately was unbothered re: changing mine for the first two years, and then within the space of a week I went from "idk kinda" to "yeah no it definitely bothers me now," and I think it's less to do with she/her and more to do with the other connotations that come with the pronouns, like people using other feminine labels in relation to me—and typically it's usually something where what's being said isn't the issue; I'd just rather hear "and AFAB" added on after "women" when talking about something relating to me and the group I'm in, haha—and that sort of thing did bother me from day one of coming out. It brought me to this point where I was like, okay, the pronouns need to change so that the other things will follow suit.

A N Y W A Y lmao. Love that in 2021 on gay ass insanejournal dot com we still have that kind of trash going on.